How to express love to your partner

    How to Express Love to your partner.

If you want to maintain a loving relationship, then it's important to show your loved one how you feel in ways that they will understand and appreciate. With a little extra work, you'll be able to express your love and keep your relationship strong.


1. Verbalize your feelings.
Tell your partner that you love him/her. Compliment your partner when you find them attractive, Your partner cannot read your mind, so express yourself in words when you find yourself admiring your partner. Express the value you see in your partner and remember, it never gets old
You may feel more comfortable writing out your feelings than saying them out loud, so write cards or letters to your partner.

2. Spend some alone time together.
 Life can get busy with work, kids, pets, in-laws, friends, etc. Make sure you set aside some time to spend alone with your partner.
Focus on your partner and discuss things that are meaningful to both of you; avoid talking about “To-do’s”, kids, or money. Do something goofy or choose an activity that you can laugh at and enjoy together.

3. Express gratitude.
 Show your partner you care by acknowledging and expressing gratitude for the things your partner does
 You can express your gratitude through words or through a note.
You can give gifts that express gratitude, such as flowers or a beautiful meal or something special that you choose.

4.  Share joy.
 Celebrate your partner’s good news. Be there for your partner when things are difficult, but especially be there when your partner experiences positive news. Partners who celebrate good news together have better long-term stability. Show that you support your partner and share in their joy. Give your partner your full attention when they share news.
Engage wholeheartedly with your partner. Ask questions and show your enthusiasm.

5. Understand your partner’s needs.
You may express love through gifts while your partner receives love through touch. Recognizing that the way you give love may not be the way that your partner receives love Yet, knowing the ways your partner feels loved helps you express love in ways that your partner can appreciate it.    Try different methods, and see what generates the most positive response.

 Some research has examined five “love languages,” or ways to relate and express love to your partner.
a) Words of affirmation:

Compliments stating your positive feelings saying words like “I love you,” "I need you" "My Yori Yori" etc

b) Quality time: Giving your undivided attention to your partner.

c) Gifts: physical symbols of love such as flowers, jewelry, tools.

d) Acts of service:
 walking the dog, cleaning the kitchen, throwing the garage.

e) Physical touch: Having sex (if they're comfortable and ready), holding hands, giving affection, touch his hair e.t.c. Physical touch can create intimacy and show your partner that you want to be physically close to him/her

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